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How to Spot Child Abuse and What to Do

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b2ap3_thumbnail_child-abuse-signs_20190130-181753_1.jpgA parent’s worst nightmare is their child being hurt in any way. This includes various forms of abuse such as physical, sexual, or emotional. It can be difficult to detect or prove that your child is being abused, especially if you believe the abuser is your child’s other parent. Here we will discuss signs of potential abuse and what you can do to protect your child.

Detecting Child Abuse

Knowing whether your child is suffering from abuse can be very difficult, especially since the accusation is so severe. Many children will not open up about the situation out of fear of their abuser, or they have built a mental block to protect themselves. Physical evidence can also be hard to use as proof. A couple of bruises are usually not enough evidence since children often get bruises playing with their friends. While it can be difficult to prove abuse based solely on suspicion, a combination of signs can provide enough evidence to be sure your child is being abused.

Signs of Physical Abuse

  • Bruises, welts, or cuts that the child has no explanation for;
  • Injury marks with a pattern from an object, such as a belt;
  • Avoiding physical contact; and
  • Consistent wearing of long-sleeve or baggy clothing to cover marks.

Signs of Emotional Abuse

  • Constantly worrying about doing something wrong;
  • Depression and low self-esteem; and
  • Distancing from close friends or family members.

How to Help Your Child

Discovering your child is a victim of abuse is devastating and infuriating to any parent, which can result in a myriad of reactions, some good and some bad. If your child tells you they are experiencing abuse, it is important to remain calm and process what they have disclosed to you. It can be difficult to refrain from interrogating your child about every detail of the abuse, but this forced discussion can lead them to relive the abuse and scare them from telling you anything more. It is crucial to reassure your child they did nothing wrong. Many victims, especially children, will blame themselves for the abuse. Once you have comforted your child, contact the Illinois Department of Child and Family Services for assistance.

Contact a DuPage County Family Law Attorney

Child abuse is taken with the utmost seriousness in every state and court. At A. Traub & Associates, we understand the safety of your child is what matters most. If you believe your child is suffering from abuse of any kind, contact our Lombard, IL family law attorneys at 630-426-0196.


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