Posted on October 28, 2012 in Divorce

Illinois Law cites 7 major grounds for divorce which require fault, and one which doesn’t.  The one that does not is called a no-fault divorce where irreconcilable differences are cited.  The legal definition is very telling; it is the existence of significant differences between a married couple that are so great and beyond resolution as to make a marriage unworkable.  One party in the divorce has only to that this rift exists and that they are unworkable.  The couple must also be separated for 2 years, or sign a waiver after 6 months.

There are also culpable types of grounds for divorce that have a criminal aspect.  The List of "At Fault" Grounds for Divorce are as follows:

•  Mental Cruelty
•  Adultery
•  Alienation of Affection
•  Physical Cruelty
•  Drug Addiction or Drunkenness
•  Infection with a STD
•  Conviction of a Felony

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 Posted on October 25, 2012 in Divorce

In recent years, the rate of baby boomer divorces has increased gradually. Nowadays, every fourth divorce includes spouses age 50 or older, while twenty years ago they were included in only 10 percent of divorces. There are many reasons that have caused the phenomenon, says a recent article in the Chicago Tribune.

Marital roles and expectations have been changing and it has taken the boomers some getting used to. In the past, marriage was taken for granted; once you got married you were in it for life. Today couples expect more from marriage and the quality of marriage has become more important. A 2010 study found that boomers were more likely than any other age group to say that happiness is the main point of marriage, and 66 percent said they would rather divorce than stay in an unhappy marriage. It’s only natural that couples start to question decisions they made some thirty years ago, and may feel that divorce is the best option. This is also the time when you should consider talking to an experienced divorce lawyer.

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 Posted on October 23, 2012 in Divorce

Mentally disabled people have not been able to get a divorce in Illinois in the past unless his or her spouse has wanted to. However, this might change in the near future due to a recent ruling in a case in Cook County, according to the Chicago Tribune. Marcia Karbin was in a car accident in 1997 and has been suffering from brain damage ever since. After the accident, her daughter was named her legal guardian. Marcia has had financial disputes with her husband which prompted her daughter to seek a divorce for her.

In the past, guardians have not been allowed to seek a divorce on behalf of the mentally disabled people they were taking care of. It didn’t matter whether a person had a severe brain damage, Alzheimer’s or a mental illness whose effects come and go – even if they were able to voice their desires, they were still banned from seeking a divorce. The ban, however, might leave disabled people under the control of abusive or exploitative spouses. As stated by Justice Charles Freeman, "either the guardian can act in the best interests of the ward for all personal matters, or for none at all."

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 Posted on October 19, 2012 in Divorce

According to the Chicago Tribune, the Illinois Supreme Court opened the door "to divorce for people who need guardians because of mental disabilities." It’s great news for the thousands of Illinois residents who suffer from mental disabilities, as before the law was passed, "the disabled person could not get a divorce unless his or her spouse started the process."

The state Supreme Court ruling stated that the ban "is no longer appropriate. It could leave vulnerable people at the complete mercy of spouses who abuse them or exploit them financially." Under the new law, the court will consider each disabled person individually, and allow the judge to decide on an individual basis that, "there is clear and convincing evidence that [divorce] would be in the disabled person’s best interests."

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 Posted on October 16, 2012 in Divorce

According to Medill, a publication of Northwestern University in Chicago, "states that allow same-sex marriage have some of the lowest [divorce] rates in the country." As the idea of legal LGBT marriage comes to Illinois, many opponents fear that it will ruin the idea of a nuclear family, traditionally consisting of a mother, father, and children. Yet Carolina Staerk, a representative from Equity Illinois, has stated that the state has recently become open to the idea of a marriage equality act. 

According to the Medill, the divorce rate is lowest in states that allow same-sex marriage. "Same-sex couples took their vows for the first time May 17, 2004, as Massachusetts became the first state to legalize same-sex marriage." In 2004, the divorce rate in that state was 2.2 for every 1,000 people. By 2010 that had risen to 2.5 per 1,000 people; still the second lowest divorce rate in the country by state. The state with the lowest divorce rate in 2010? Iowa—another state that allows same-sex marriage.

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 Posted on October 11, 2012 in Divorce

Michigan Live is reporting that Flint attorney Denise Ketchmark has filed a lawsuit against Genesee Circuit Judge Archie Hayman seeking more than $4 million in child support and other damages. Hayman, who is well known for his insistence on men being held to their responsibilities as fathers, allegedly carried on a secret twenty-year love affair and fathered two children out of wedlock with Ketchmark, all the while shirking his financial responsibilities for the children.

Hayman has responded to the lawsuit by seeking to have the case file sealed from public view, and requesting an order for DNA testing in order to prove his parentage of the children, despite the fact that he previously signed affidavits of parentage for both children and provided medical insurance for them. Ketchmark is opposing these motions, stating that the public has a right to know if Hayman has committed insurance fraud by obtaining insurance for children who he now claims are not his biological children, and that Hayman waived his right to genetic testing when he signed affidavits of parentage.

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 Posted on October 08, 2012 in Divorce

According to a recent article in The Washington Post, former LA Dodgers owner Frank McCourt is facing a motion by his ex-wife, Jamie McCourt, seeking to reopen their October, 2010 divorce settlement, in which she received $131 million. Jamie McCourt, through her attorneys, filed her motion to set aside the divorce settlement in the Los Angeles Superior Court on September 24, 2012.

In her motion, Jamie McCourt is claiming that Frank McCourt substantially misrepresented the value of the LA Dodgers, which he sold earlier this year for $2 billion to a group of investors including former Los Angeles Lakers star Magic Johnson. The sale price represented the highest amount ever paid for a professional sports franchise, which is particularly interesting in light of the fact that the Dodgers initiated bankruptcy proceedings in June, 2011. In those proceedings, attorneys for Major League Baseball claimed that McCourt had funded his lavish lifestyle at the expense of the Dodgers, with over $180 million in revenue taken from the club.

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 Posted on October 05, 2012 in Prenuptial Agreement

Everyone has heard that half of marriages end in divorce, so it is getting more and more common to take legal action to protect your personal assets and property. The easiest and the most common way of doing this is to have your future spouse sign a premarital agreement. Here are the basics of what the Illinois Uniform Premarital Agreement Act says about prenuptial agreements:

What is a premarital agreement?

A premarital agreement is defined in the IUPAA as "an agreement between prospective spouses made in contemplation of marriage and to be effective upon marriage." The agreement must be in writing and it has to be signed by both parties. After it is signed, it is enforceable without consideration. As with all legal contracts, you should make sure that the agreement is written properly and that you know exactly what you are agreeing to. Get an experienced family law attorney to help you with such matters.

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 Posted on October 02, 2012 in Divorce

When you are going through a divorce, there many questions that need answered, and child custody is among the most pressing. An important aspect in this is to know what kind of custody you are looking for. According to a Huffington Post story, parents go to court, fighting for child custody, without actually knowing what the custodial arrangement they want means. A skilled family law attorney can help you with these matters.

Judge Michele F. Lowrance, a family court judge for 17 years, said that is is not uncommon for a parent asking for sole custody to not really know what it means. Parents looking for joint custody are often the same way, according to her. As are so many other issues in divorce, fighting for custodial rights is not only emotionally challenging, but it can also be very confusing.

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 Posted on September 30, 2012 in Divorce

The Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act is the legal basis for child custody proceedings in Illinois. The Act has statutes on child custody matters in case of dissolution or invalidation of marriage, as well as for governing a case of a parent petitioning for custody in the county where they are permanent residents. The IMDMA also talks about matters that might not be as common in courtrooms, and we will look at one of these matters.

The right of a stepparent to file a petition for custody under certain conditions is part of the IMDMA. Since this is not the most common arrangement, there are conditions for these proceedings. The conditions list all of the following:

- the child is at least 12 years old

- the custodial parent and stepparent were married for a minimum of 5 years, and the child lived with the parent and the stepparent

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