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When Is a Child Old Enough to Decide Which Parent to Live With?
Divorcing parents in Illinois frequently disagree about the best way to arrange shared parenting time and parental responsibilities. After so many years of an unhappy marriage, it can feel like negotiating your relationship with your child is too much to ask. Many children are caught between parents who cannot agree on a parenting plan and often, both the parents and children are dissatisfied with the eventual outcome.
But children grow older and as they do, they begin to develop more mature relationships with their parents. This can include a more nuanced perspective on their parents’ divorce, as well as strong preferences for a parenting arrangement that may be different from the current court order. As a child’s personality continues to develop, he or she may express a desire to spend more time with one parent than the current schedule allows. For the parent with whom the child wants to spend more time, this may be a welcome adjustment - but where do you go from here?
Consider Setting Up a Trust If You Are in One of These Five Situations
Setting up an estate plan for the first time can be a daunting task. Not only does it confront you with potentially uncomfortable questions ranging from the practical to the existential, but it also requires careful accounting of your assets and detailed planning for the future. Fortunately, you are not required to manage your estate plan alone. Experienced attorneys who have no motive but to protect your wishes are available to help you identify the type of estate planning instruments that will benefit you the most. One common feature of an estate plan is a trust.
What is a Trust?
A trust is a fiduciary (financial) arrangement that allows someone to give their assets to a designated person (trustee), who will manage or hold the assets until they pass on to the trust’s recipients (beneficiaries). People who have specific plans for their money, property, or heirloom belongings after they pass away commonly use trusts to ensure their wishes are protected.
The Fives Types of Powers of Attorney in Illinois
Establishing an estate plan early and reviewing it often will ensure your wishes are met and that your loved ones are protected; waiting too long to take care of your estate plan can instead leave your loved ones scrambling to make tough decisions. Having a power of attorney - i.e., giving someone the legal authority to make decisions for you - is essential for helping you and your family in times of need. Here are five kinds of powers of attorney and how each may benefit you.
Durable Power of Attorney
A durable power of attorney is applicable and legally binding as soon as it is signed. It is effective even if you become incapacitated, or unable to make decisions for yourself. Unless otherwise specified, most powers of attorney are presumed to be durable, but it is best to be as specific as possible in your estate plan. A durable power of attorney continues to be effective even if you come in and out of capacity, or if you are only capable of making certain decisions.
Who Pays For School Supplies After a Divorce?
As divorced parents all over Illinois prepare to send their children back to school, inflation has caused the prices of many school goods to increase substantially. When backpacks, pencils, and textbooks cost as much as 15 percent more than they did last year, even the basics can be hitting parents’ wallets hard. This might raise an awkward question: Who is responsible for paying for school supplies when parents are divorced?
Does Child Support Cover School Expenses?
During a divorce, appropriate child support payments are calculated using the Illinois income shares method. Using the incomes of both parents, the time each child spends with each parent, and each child’s legitimate needs, child support payments are set and cannot be changed without proving a substantial change in circumstances.
The everyday costs of raising a child are considered part of the child support equation. This includes clothes, food, extracurricular activities, and educational supplies. The parent who has the majority of parenting time should be receiving enough child support to cover the cost of school supplies each year.
If My Ex Leaves Me For Someone Else, Do I Still Have to Pay Alimony?
Illinois is a no-fault divorce state. This means that, no matter how poorly spouses treated each other during their marriage, the only fault that can be given when a couple gets divorced is "irreconcilable differences." With few exceptions, divorce judges do not take a spouse’s behavior during a marriage into consideration when he or she is making decisions about the outcome of the divorce.
For a spouse who has been wronged, this can feel deeply unfair. After all, it makes sense that someone who ruins a marriage with unforgivable acts of infidelity should not have the right to make the same demands of their spouse as someone who has been faithful. Unfortunately, this is how the law works in Illinois. But this does not mean that you cannot use the law to your advantage if your spouse is already with someone else and is asking you for alimony.
Can I Fight My Ex’s Alimony Petition if They Have Another Partner?
In Illinois, alimony is technically known as "spousal maintenance." While spousal maintenance is awarded less often than it used to be, for spouses who have been married for a long time and who have a significant difference in their ability to make money, spousal maintenance is still common.
Three Things to Do Before You Travel Internationally With Your Child
Today more than ever, families are made up of parents who were born in different countries. On top of that, the ease of international travel makes divorced parents traveling out of the United States with underage children a very common occurrence. But in the bustle of preparing for a long journey, parents often do not think about what they need to do before leaving the country with a child after divorce. To avoid any legal complications that could prevent you from leaving the country, it is essential to do these things before leaving the U.S. with your child.
Get Your Child’s Passport
Regardless of the parents’ relationship status, all children under the age of 16 must have both parents’ authorization to get a passport. This may require both parents to be present at the passport meeting, although getting a signed permission form may also be possible. If just one parent has parental responsibilities, or if one parent has had their parental right terminated, the parent with authority over the child must prove there is not another parent who needs to give their consent. Passports for children are only valid for five years, so if you already have passports, be sure to check the expiration date. Many countries will not let visitors enter if their passport expires within six months.
Four Challenging School Situations You May Run Into After Divorce
Divorce brings many changes and a new school year can heap challenge upon challenge for newly divorced parents who are managing children’s schedules from two different households. The first school year can be especially difficult as you come up with new strategies for managing the new and old problems that come with having minor kids in school. Here are four situations that Illinois parents frequently encounter during the school year and some suggestions for handling them smoothly.
Homework and School Projects
It is important for parents to be on the same page about enforcing homework rules and expectations. This is especially true for bigger projects and tests that can take weeks to complete or prepare for and which may require supplies to be moved between households. The more a routine can be predictable and simple, the easier it will be for kids and both parents to follow.
School Lunch
Whether your child buys lunch at school or takes lunch with them is less important than everybody knowing what to expect. After all, the last thing you want is for a kid to be surprised at school with an empty lunch account balance and a hungry stomach. If a child is eating school lunch, make sure you discuss how to manage the costs (this can be a great issue to address in your parenting plan). If you need to reimburse the other parent for the cost of food, do it directly through them, not your child.
Do I Have to Include My Stepchildren In My Illinois Estate Plan?
While many stepparents come to have close relationships with their stepchildren, other stepparents do not nor even wish to. Step-families are often a complex mix of histories, emotions, grievances, and perceived injuries, making warm relationships difficult to establish and nurture.
Whether one feels positively or otherwise about his stepchildren, when it comes to estate planning, certain questions must be answered. Does a stepparent need to specifically address stepchildren in the estate plan? Is a stepparent a terrible person if they choose to specifically exclude their stepchildren or even one particular stepchild? If you are learning more about creating an estate plan, read on and then contact our Illinois estate planning attorneys for skilled legal assistance.
Do Stepchildren Have Rights to an Estate?
The good news for stepparents who are not interested in making their stepchildren part of the estate plan is that, unless they are adopted, stepchildren have no inheritance rights. Even if they are not mentioned in an individual’s will, stepchildren do not have standing to claim an inheritance from a stepparent. Stepchildren who are adopted are treated the same as biological children.
Can an Illinois Judge Punish a Spouse Who Hides Assets During Divorce?
While divorce is never pleasant, most divorces are able to proceed without extensive conflict between spouses. A couple’s assets are divided fairly, using mediation or collaborative divorce if necessary, and both spouses go on to live their separate lives. In some cases, however, a spouse will try to get the upper hand by deceiving their spouse and the court about the true value, location, or nature of their assets.
To the spouse on the receiving end of this behavior, it can feel deeply unfair and frustrating. And without knowing how to access better information about the assets, it can be difficult to bring the dishonest to a judge’s attention. Fortunately, a spouse who gets caught hiding assets during divorce can face serious consequences. An experienced divorce attorney can help you bring asset hiding to a judge’s attention, as well as search for hidden assets with the help of appropriate professionals.
Can I Get Child Support If My Ex Left the United States?
Although being a parent can be a warm, joyful experience, it also has its frustrations. One common scenario that many Illinois parents experience is the challenge of recovering child support from a former spouse or partner who feels no obligation to ensure their child is financially cared for. Of course, not only does this place the child at a disadvantage, but it also requires the parent receiving child support to work overtime just to get what they are legally due.
Some parents who do not want to pay child support will go so far as to leave the country to avoid their responsibilities. Other parents will get deported or move and simply stop making payments. If you find yourself confronted with the necessity of chasing your child’s other parent across the globe to get child support, read on.
Are Parents in Other Countries Still Required to Pay Child Support?
Leaving the United States does not absolve a parent or his or her responsibility to pay child support. However, before any enforcement action can be taken, a legitimate child support order must be put in place by an Illinois court. Your child’s other parent does not have to be present for the order to be put in place, but without an order, the authorities cannot take action.











